Connecting Nests

Custody schedule

The 4-3 schedule

The child is with one parent four nights a week and the other three, on the same days every week.

57/43
overnight split
7
night cycle
209
nights a year (parent A)

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 57/43 — about 209 and 156 nights a year.
WeekMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1 AAAABBB

Who it tends to suit

Families stepping toward an even split, or where one parent's work makes a true 50/50 impractical.

The honest trade-off

The most predictable schedule on this list — every week is identical, so there is no odd/even week to track and no calendar needed after the first month. It's also the natural on-ramp to 50/50: shifting a single night makes it 3-4-4-3.

Exchanges

The same two exchange days every week.

Also called: four-three, 60/40.

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