Connecting Nests

Custody schedule

The Alternating weekends schedule

The child lives primarily with one parent and spends every other weekend with the other.

86/14
overnight split
14
night cycle
313
nights a year (parent A)

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 86/14 — about 313 and 52 nights a year.
WeekMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1 AAAABBA
2 AAAAAAA
About that numberThis figure counts the weekend rotation only. Most alternating-weekend plans also split holidays and give the other parent two to four weeks in summer, which brings the real annual share closer to 20% — the figure usually quoted for this schedule.

Who it tends to suit

Families where one parent has been the primary caregiver, where work schedules don't allow more, or as a starting point that steps up over time.

The honest trade-off

Long the default in American courts, and still the most common order — but twelve days can pass between weekends, and the weekend parent rarely sees a school night or a homework fight. Most plans soften it with a midweek dinner.

Exchanges

Friday after school to Sunday evening is the standard block.

Also called: every other weekend, EOW, standard visitation.

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