Connecting Nests

Custody schedule

The Long-distance (school year and breaks) schedule

The child lives with one parent during the school year and spends most of the summer and school breaks with the other.

80/20
overnight split
365
night cycle
292
nights a year (parent A)

The rotation

This schedule is built around school breaks rather than a weekly rotation, so it has no repeating week grid.

Who it tends to suit

Parents in different cities or states, military families, and any case where a weekly rotation isn't physically possible.

The honest trade-off

Trades frequency for duration: the distant parent may see the child only a few times a year, but gets long, unhurried blocks instead of weekends. These plans live or die on the travel terms — who books, who pays, who flies with an unaccompanied minor — so those get written in detail rather than left to goodwill.

Exchanges

Name the airport, who books, who pays, and what happens to a missed or cancelled flight.

Also called: long distance custody, out of state, holiday-only.

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