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New Jersey · 2-2-5-5

2-2-5-5 in New Jersey

Each parent has the same two weeknights every week, and the weekends alternate — so each parent gets a five-night block every other week. In New Jersey this is written into a Parenting Plan, where time with a child is called parenting time.

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Template for educational use — not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state. Laws change; confirm current requirements with a licensed attorney in New Jersey.

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 50/50 — about 182 and 182 nights a year.
WeekMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1 AABBAAA
2 AABBBBB

What New Jersey expects

New Jersey requires parties in a contested custody case to file a custody and parenting-time plan, and its statute expressly favors frequent and continuing contact with both parents.

Governing law: N.J.S.A. § 9:2-4.

New Jersey requires its own form — Custody and Parenting Time Plan. Agree your terms first, then transcribe them onto it.

The honest trade-off

The best of both worlds for many families: every Monday-Tuesday is Mom's and every Wednesday-Thursday is Dad's (or the reverse), so activities and childcare land on the same days forever, and nobody goes more than five nights without the child. Fewer exchanges than 2-2-3 and far more predictable than alternating weeks.

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