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North Carolina · 4-3

4-3 in North Carolina

The child is with one parent four nights a week and the other three, on the same days every week. In North Carolina this is written into a Parenting Agreement, where time with a child is called visitation.

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Template for educational use — not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state. Laws change; confirm current requirements with a licensed attorney in North Carolina.

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 57/43 — about 209 and 156 nights a year.
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What North Carolina expects

North Carolina requires custody mediation in most contested cases before a hearing — parents typically arrive at mediation with a draft agreement, which is exactly this document's job.

Governing law: N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13.2.

The honest trade-off

The most predictable schedule on this list — every week is identical, so there is no odd/even week to track and no calendar needed after the first month. It's also the natural on-ramp to 50/50: shifting a single night makes it 3-4-4-3.

Other schedules in North Carolina