Connecting Nests

North Dakota · 3-4-4-3

3-4-4-3 in North Dakota

One parent has three nights and the other four, then it flips the following week. In North Dakota this is written into a Parenting Plan, where time with a child is called parenting time.

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Template for educational use — not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state. Laws change; confirm current requirements with a licensed attorney in North Dakota.

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 50/50 — about 182 and 182 nights a year.
WeekMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1 AAABBBB
2 AAAABBB

What North Dakota expects

North Dakota replaced custody with 'residential responsibility' and 'decision-making responsibility', and its statute lists the specific matters a parenting plan must address.

Governing law: N.D.C.C. § 14-09-30.

The honest trade-off

Exchanges land on the same two days every week, which makes it easy to remember, and no one waits more than four nights. The trade is that which parent has the weekend flips each week, so weekend plans need a two-week memory.

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