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Standard Possession Order (1st / 3rd / 5th weekends) in Texas

Texas's statutory default: the first, third, and fifth weekends of each month with the non-primary parent, plus Thursday evenings and a long summer block. In Texas this is written into a Parenting Plan, where time with a child is called possession and access.

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Template for educational use — not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state. Laws change; confirm current requirements with a licensed attorney in Texas.

The rotation

A = one parent, B = the other. Each cell is one overnight. This rotation divides regular school-year overnights 86/14 — about 313 and 52 nights a year.
WeekMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
1 AAAABBA
2 AAAAAAA
3 AAAABBA
4 AAAAAAA
About that numberThis figure is the school-year weekend rotation only. The SPO's summer block (30 days) and alternating holidays push the real annual share to roughly 25% — the number most Texas lawyers quote. Electing the Expanded Standard Possession Order, which is the default when the non-primary parent lives within 50 miles, adds Thursday overnights and runs weekends Thursday to Monday, moving it toward 45%.

What Texas expects

Texas vocabulary is unlike any other state: parents are 'conservators' (usually Joint Managing Conservators), time is 'possession and access', and the statutory default is the Standard Possession Order — commonly 1st/3rd/5th weekends. Plans are written as the SPO, an Expanded SPO, or an agreed variation.

Governing law: Tex. Fam. Code § 153.252 (Standard Possession Order).

The honest trade-off

Its advantage is that it's the default: a court will order it without argument, and every Texas family lawyer knows it cold. Counting weekends by ordinal rather than alternating means the non-primary parent occasionally gets two weekends in a row (the fifth, then the first). The Expanded Standard Possession Order stretches each period from Thursday to Monday, moving it toward 45/55.

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